Dating several men
12-Jun-2020 23:35
Seeing a bevy of men means I can end things without cutting them off for good, and in some cases, I’ve even stayed friends with a few of the guys I went out with.
Multi-dating has made it much easier for me to drop the men who are wrong for me without living with the inherent fear of being alone.
Even if I double up on something, I can just pretend my phone sent the text twice. Great, now I've met another person who knows I'm dating this person and I have to spend my dates with other people looking for that person like they're a spy who could cause my undoing.
OK, I think I'm just gonna copy/paste text all three of them as much as possible. What if their roommate/friend you met sees you on a date with someone else? When you tell a story a bunch of times because you can't remember which one you already told it to.
When they all drop off the map except for the one you were the least into.
It’s been ingrained in my mind that multi-dating is bad, taboo, and a sure-fire way to screw up my chances of finding “The One.” But after putting all of my eggs into one basket by dating one guy at a time on my quest to find Mr.
Right, I decided to change my approach and it’s actually pretty great. I’m convinced multi-dating was invented by a man, and if guys are OK with seeing multiple women at the same time then why should I feel bad about flipping the script and doing the same?
